VIRILITY: ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION, EFFECTIVE TIPS AND STRATEGIES
Erectile dysfunction is an erection problem in men, it consists of a difficulty in having an erection or maintaining it during the sexual act. This deficit in any man creates a strong discomfort as it relates to his sexual identity, virility, the way he perceives himself and in his relationship with the opposite sex.
In this article Escorte Suceava reveals some things you should know. It is not true that the size of a man is linked to how he has sex but it is true that desire is an essential component of existence, linked to our instincts. Desiring and being desired is satisfying, it represents the reflection of who we are.
Man’s virility has declined, many medical and scientific research demonstrates it, today it is easy to find posters with specialist centers for this pathology, ad hoc professionals anthrologists, sexologists and some branches of psychology. Many factors have certainly contributed, stress, poor diet, sedentary life, unresolved personal emotional problems.
The problems are there and the remedies too! Just don’t get crushed by performance anxiety and consequently start a chain process.
The dysfunction. erectile dysfunction dear males can have organic or psychological causes or both. The organic causes related to a health problem: vascular, diabetes, use of drugs, alcohol and smoking, arterial hypertension, use of antidepressants, trauma to the limb due to accidents at work or sports, unoperated phimosis in childhood, hypospadias, etc. To establish whether the dysfunction has an organic origin, there are various tests that must be undergone, always followed by your family doctor or a specialist in the field, never resort to do-it-yourself! The area is very delicate and deserves the right attention.
The diagnosis includes a visit to an andrologist-urologist, where a cognitive interview is carried out, a history of personal history (has your friend abandoned you, has he never been there???), it is important to involve your partner if you have a partner stable, who will be able to have his say, how he lives and perceives the relationship, he will be able to report his perceptions.
The laboratory investigations and specialist tests that may be required are ultrasounds, ecocolor Doppler preferably without administering drugs by injection, this to see the natural reaction, the penogram which allows you to understand how the arteriovenous circulation of the two corpora cavernosa is set avoiding the injection with hormones.
Establish whether or not there are organic causes that unfortunately can affect not only the elderly but also young people, being a factor that affects living a life and a satisfactory relationship, it is useful to know the drugs that can solve the problem and how to use them.
Being a very delicate area, we need to know the weapons that medicine offers us to combat the problem, the choice of drug depends on the frequency of the sexual act, whether or not you have a stable relationship. If you have frequent intercourse, Cialis is ideal and should be taken every day. There are drugs that must be taken such as Viagra, the so-called blue pill when needed, the same goes for Spectra and Levita, therefore taking it at least an hour before the performance, but this assumes that making love is planned, programmed and often creates a decrease in desire in the partner or a loss of the thrill of wanting to want it freely without warning. Levitra can be taken like Viagra one hour before the sexual act or always take it under medical indication every other day during the week so that with sexual stimulation it can take effect. The latter drug has a different effect it can avoid the hassle of planning the sexual act first but compared to Cialis this too has less immediate effects. The evaluation of the drug must always be done under the medical guidance and if there are doubts by the pharmacist.
The latest novelty in the treatment of erectile dysfunction is the administration via intravenous transdermal, oral and gastric absorption a new medicine that has the size of a postage stamp to be dissolved under the tongue and allows the active ingredient Sildenafil to be rapidly absorbed by the body.
The positive aspect of this drug is that it can be taken close to meals and therefore also during a quiet lunch or dinner with your partner.
When while taking a drug the problem is not solved? The nature of the problem could be psychological . The problem can manifest itself during the foreplay, as it can instead lose tone during or during penetration, these are important considerations. We are the first doctor, we must understand when it occurs, be honest with ourselves. Do we have an erection in the morning and at night or during masturbation? If yes, the cause could not be of an organic nature.
We men often prefer not to talk about these things, we prefer to pretend that, but if we don’t make an early diagnosis, the knots come back to the comb! And why do without such a beautiful and fulfilling dimension of our life? Understanding the source of the problem is also important. Often behind erectile dysfunction there is performance anxiety, not feeling adequate, up to par, having entered the vicious circle… of going badly, and it has almost become a final verdict. In this case it would be good to refer to a psychotherapist and sometimes to a sexologist who can help to understand the moment in which one is overcome by anxiety, often the thought of not making it can lead us into a bad whirlwind and make us feel not adequate, not enough. The myths that society offers us about man, advertising men’s perfumes presented with statutory, muscular boys, the world of fitness fashion, cinema offer us virile, attractive masculine men. The fear of being seen and perceived as a loser, a man who doesn’t know how to please his woman, a man who lacks something. The first thing to do is not to close in on the problem and not see a solution, in parallel we need to communicate and confront each other and find in complicity the way to overcome the obstacle without fixating on the problem.
Even if the woman lives a difficult and complicated role, she has to play down and find stimuli, inputs that relax her partner… let’s think of erotic games , create intriguing situations for couples.
Find sex shops where you can buy skimpy clothes, lingerie, special stockings that stimulate the imagination, thongs and various erotic objects. In almost all cities now there are sex shops where you can find everything and more, or on specialized websites so that you can better protect your privacy. We need to stimulate the senses, the vision of something exciting, create the right atmosphere through the salt candle or through incense with stimulating fragrances such as opium, cinnamon. See some hard movies together and why not repeat the scene.
RPGs are games that allow you to transform into someone else, who isn’t thinking about the nurse and doctor game? even with costumes, they stimulate the libido and get out of the routine, they are little suggestions to go a little further!
The sensual and erotic massage for couples or involving someone else could be another option, unwind, relax, do not think and find intriguing situations that will certainly help you find your virility which is always there in every man, just turn it back on. passion desire.
The masseuses also take care of these aspects. The experience of introducing someone to lead the dance is not a bad proposition at all. The masters of the art of love will know how to guide you and teach you how to overcome certain blocks. They are experiences with strong emotions where the couple’s understanding is strengthened, one goes beyond jealousy, beyond the lie of doing something exciting secretly.
A problem for many couples lies in having lost the attractive component, routine, children, responsibilities, finding sexual understanding is essential and if you are unable to try an unusual strong experience on your own it will certainly be useful.
Both man and woman shouldn’t be afraid to let out their hottest desires, we all have a transgressive soul but society often puts it to sleep with its rules.
Creating or finding the right environment to experience the situation is an aspect not to be underestimated, soft lights, smells such as aphrodisiac foods are small pearls like medicines. The mirrors where you can reflect your bodies, see yourself and see incites passion.
Experimenting with different places for love, the bathtub, the emotional shower, the table, outdoors in the woods and on the beach or in a massage centre, where qualified personnel can suggest alternatives to the usual bedroom Bed.
Regaining your sexual fantasies can be a support in solving erectile dysfunction, trying new positions. There are more comfortable positions for those who have these difficulties, French with the man and woman lying on their sides, the reverse ride, the flower that blossoms where the two look into each other’s eyes, it may be useful to treat yourself to the book of the kamasutra .
Meeting times are also important, the early hours of the morning are always the most profitable for those suffering from dysfunction problems, the body more rested and the mind fresher.
Body care and lifestyle is another aspect that deserves to be talked about, outdoor life, contact with nature, healthy food low in fat and sugar, constant physical activity that helps the body feeling better and releasing stress and anxiety are the golden tokens of sex and love.
Understanding with one’s body, listening to one’s impulses and desires and preferences. Understanding what we like to do and how to do it and perhaps admitting it to ourselves will certainly help us experience a more satisfying sexual dimension.
In addition to academic medical supports, it is possible to associate other health and extra socialization behaviors that can restore vigor and yes the joys of sexuality.